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An old acquaintance shared a photograph of a senior NRI associate \/ relative \/ friend’s family that used to call umpteen times while they were in the foreign land. However, they did totally ignore my existence this time since they landed in the motherland recently.<\/p>\n
Being associated with the creative fields of journalism and fine arts, I \u2018m used to brickbats and accolades of my readers. It is not easy to accept to go into oblivion.<\/p>\n
It happens that people come close, closer, still closer and when their illusions shatter they drift away. With years of swim and trim, the ambience and temp of water affect me no more. However, a human can be apathetic but not senseless. The relationships pass through various stages. Human nature is complex and our behaviour doesn\u2019t always reflect what we\u2019re or we want to be.<\/p>\n
It could be very difficult at times to tell what makes the people act the way they do. Why the sudden changes creep into their\u00a0 behaviour without a clearly identifiable cause. This is especially hard when it comes from your once affectionate associates. The pertinent question remains – `Why is someone ignoring you and why the change? Does this question sound familiar? Are you also often puzzled by this kind of distant behaviour?
\nBefore exploring the reasons, I put some interesting observations based on introspection:<\/p>\n
When we\u2019re dynamic, we lose balance; when we\u2019re still we turn stagnant; when we\u2019re intense, we\u2019re tense and when we\u2019re relax, we go lax. So, before searching the holes in others, we should first always look inwards. But blaming oneself is not a healthy option always.<\/p>\n
Again the pertinent question needs to be tackled: \u201cWhy someone is ignoring you?\u201d<\/p>\n
First spontaneous reaction as Mirza Ghalib had said, \u201cDil ke bahlaney ko Ghalib yeh khyal achcha hai?\u201d (A thought more to palliate your wounded ego).<\/p>\n
Before we immediately imagine the worst possible scenario \u2013 your associate does think that you\u2019re no longer worth to be in the inner circle, here are some of the most common reasons for someone giving the cold shoulder:<\/p>\n
He \/ she needs to breathe. Too much of your existence has lately occupied their mental spaces.<\/p>\n
Upset and doesn\u2019t want to talk about it.
\nYou, yourself might been acting different lately.
\nSome old or new friends are affecting their decisions.
\nThey are just busy.
\nThey are jealous of your status.<\/p>\n
They are thinking of ending things
\nThey have got cold feet or lost the loving feeling – Sometimes, when some guys start to become emotionally attached they just sort of freak out for a bit and get cold feet. They try to push you away, they hesitate and question their own feelings.<\/p>\n
Then all one can do is to give some space and time to himself \/ herself to accept the new reality.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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