For many die-hard successful practical people romantics are fools. For those who disagree – anyone practical is no fun to talk about and should be shunned. Practicality, beyond doubt, is an indispensable attribute to succeed in any realm of life
AS A greenhorn, I had always been more of a romantic idealist than a realist bloke. We all grow up on the tales of fantasy and romance. There is a time in everyone’s life when a sense of poetry pervades in our life.
We believe in love, in true love, and we have the assurance that love overcomes every obstacle in life. With a heart of Romeo or Farhad, you could surmount any hillock of difficulties. Unfortunately, the reality tells otherwise. Everyone bears his own cross and disappointments.
Long time of my life, of course the most precious one also, was consumed to clamber up the steep curve of learning through hardships. The process is still continued and I am still learning. Journeying through life I have had my own disappointments and I had also disappointed few; neither is pleasurable when I look back through hindsight.
I do sometimes wonder if realist and romantic are incompatible. Idealist doesn’t necessarily mean one who thinks a lot and does nothing. People at leisure would tell you the stories of how, once upon a time, the native and migratory birds used to be so clean, bright and spry; how the chirping and twittering of birds used to echo at every dawn and every evening and life so beautifully hummed.
Some would recall how brilliant shadows of banyan, peepal and pilkhun trees in the vicinity gave the refuge, cool, protection, peace and happiness to the travelers and to every animate object that moved. They have disappeared or suffering degradation. Alas! these experts of nostalgia and romantics always talked the same subjects and did nothing about the protection of environment – when you ask. They just talk and dream about what could be and would be environmentally beneficial.
However, for many die-hard successful practical people romantics are fools. For those who disagree – anyone practical is no fun to talk about and should be shunned. They are all kill-joys.
Practicality, beyond doubt, is an indispensable attribute to succeed in any realm of life. Pragmatism guarantees the very survival. There are people who have transformed their physical sufferings into a thundering success. However, sole practical approach could provide a person with only an ephemeral success. Our options confine and our thought process narrows down when we try to behave practical in every realm of life. Over-practicality impedes the visions of broader aspects in every field. Similarly, investments based on pure emotions push one to the brink of bankrupt relationships.
For a rational and ordinary human being, practical romance could be identified with realism. We are inspired to achieve the higher goals because we are idealist. However, romance is the prelude to enlightenment. Romance is not only restricted to relationships. It’s an attitude, an approach to life. I do still enjoy the romantic-idealistic stories because they are the integral part of my ethereal self. But I never forget that it is practicality, which carries me to the platform of life where I could appreciate the beauty and feelings.
In real life, practical wisdom enables us to live, and it is the romantic vision of people which gives us something to live for.
There is a third option – dualism. It’s the synthesis of the two extremes.


